{"id":142,"date":"2020-09-15T09:15:46","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T09:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.sandilememela.com\/?p=142"},"modified":"2020-11-06T09:16:28","modified_gmt":"2020-11-06T09:16:28","slug":"give-that-man-a-drink","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.sandilememela.com\/?p=142","title":{"rendered":"GIVE THAT MAN A DRINK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A shit-stirrer joined a drinking session at an after-tears now\nthe other day <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He poured himself a stiff shot, without permission, as he posed\na question directed at no one in particular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He said, &#8220;the National Question cannot be solved without\nthe black middle class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;In fact, it cannot be solved because of the middle class. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;You cannot be middle class and advocate for genuine black\nfreedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Frankly, the middle class exists to protect and preserve\nits benefits and privileges&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This was heavy radical politics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He turned to someone closest to him and said, &#8220;What is to\nbe done?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The man lifted the bottle on the and joined him for a stiff\nshot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As he gulped his drink he said, &#8220;I am doing what you doing.\nProblem solved.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some of us solve our problems by over drinking to avoid thinking\nand talking too much about the same issue: land dispossession and economic\nmonopoly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talking heavy politics or winning a political argument does NOT\nsolve the problem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We know that the National Question demands decisive action. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So who will bell the cat? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is too much at stake. We are trying to make the best of\nthe bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if someone wants to make you feel guilty, don&#8217;t entertain\nthem. Just pour a stiff shot. It will relax your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some fake radical wants to make you responsible for the mess in\nSouth Africa, just offer him a stiff shot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A good stiff drink dissolves politics. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone comes to pass judgement on your success and achievement\nand wants to underplay your individual struggle to get the little you have,\njust ask them what they will have to drink. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A nice house, car, clothes and a cushy job or business dont come\ncheap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oftentimes the first thing you have to sacrifice is personal\nintegrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We know principles neither put the bottle on the table nor feed\nthe children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Organize the bloody bottle if not available.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Who are they to judge?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone wants to pick up a useless quarrel about the factions in\nthe ANC and accuses you of belonging to this or that group, just offer\nsomething to drink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask if they had something to eat. Tell them to dish up for\nthemselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch the amount of food on the plate. Smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let them drink if they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone wants to block your appointment to a much coveted\nposition, ask them when is their birthday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Buy them a good bottle of choice. Buy two and share one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other is a special gift just for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shakespear wrote a lot about the power of a drink. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So did Can Themba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is not that drink solves the worlds problems. It just helps\nyou to cope with problems that you cannot change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A clever man will face, as in confront, a man who has no power\nto change anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A wise man &#8211; who has peace of mind &#8211; will not try to change a\nman who faces him<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The overpowering impulse is for shit-stirrers to gyrate before\npeaceful men who have accepted the situation for what it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The National Question &#8211; whatever that is now &#8211; cannot be solved\nor changed if it cannot be faced.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worse, it cannot be faced if we are afraid to solve or change\nit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you over 60 years of age, enjoy your life. The years ahead\nare shorter than the ones ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Share a drink with a brother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Treat all men and women &#8211; irrespective of ideological\norientation, political creed, race or station in life &#8211; the same<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is later than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Count your blessings <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is what it is<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A shit-stirrer joined a drinking session at an after-tears now the other day He poured himself a stiff shot, without permission, as he posed a question directed at no one in particular. 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